MySpace suicide hoax case closes: Mom guilty of 3 misdemeanors

Fri Nov 28, 2008 8:09PM EST

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One of the more distasteful web-centric stories in the last few years is the case of the 13-year-old Megan Meier, who was romanced and then abruptly dumped by a boy via the MySpace social networking service. In the end, it turns out there was no boy on the other end of the line, but rather a 49-year-old woman named Lori Drew, who was the mother of one of Megan's ex-friends. Megan didn't know that, though, when she hanged herself, distraught by the whole affair.

A little over a year later, the case has come to a close: The verdict, Drew has been found guilty of three misdemeanors, all involving violations of the terms of service agreement with MySpace, which in part prohibits using phony identities on the site. Drew was cleared on felony charges -- or at least not convicted; the jury failed to reach a verdict either way on one count of conspiracy.

Curiously, observers on both sides of the case are largely unhappy with the result. Many advocates wanted to see Drew found guilty of something that would make her culpable for Meier's death: According to reports she clearly knew that Meier suffered from depression. A grand jury indicted her on four counts this summer, the total of which could have earned her 20 years in prison. However, with the misdemeanor verdicts, she's unlikely to see any jail time at all.

But Drew's defender successfully argued that the case had nothing to do with murder but with computer crime, and a minor one at that. (Who hasn't created a fake identity online somewhere or told a lie via message board?) But that tactic has computer rights advocates up in arms as well. Why? Because now there's legal precedent that makes terms of service agreements legally enforceable. Has anyone ever not broken a Terms of Service agreement? Has anyone even read one all the way through? Theoretically, you could now be prosecuted -- criminally -- for using a phony email address or phone number when you register at a website (whether or not anyone died as a result), and with a precedent like the Drew case, the charges would stick.

The upshot: No one's altogether happy with the way things turned out. Except, perhaps, Lori Drew, who'll have her conscience to contend with after that slap on her wrist finally heals.

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  • 6 Posted by toniechina on Thu Sep 3, 2009 10:16PM EDT Report Abuse

    being a parent is really hard,you want whats best for your children,you trade your will for them to have a good life,sacrifices and hard work,its easy to talk and write a comment but please consider, once you've never been there,you don't know how is it like,people just talk about parenting when there's a bad news that happened,its few situations but how about the parents that work hard and yet fail,everyone has its own contributions,we have to think everytime..life is how we want it..

  • 7 Posted by badbakkaruda on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:01PM EDT Report Abuse

    The whole affair was a twisted tale of revenge? I can agree there was no "smoking gun", but at the very least she should have been charged with involuntary manslaughter or at least reckless endangerment. Our court system failed that little girl.

  • 8 Posted by bella77427 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:04PM EDT Report Abuse

    This is such a horrible thing to have happened. True this woman can't be punished by the law of man for what she allegedly caused since it can't be proved in the court of laws. Arguably the child could have been mentally or emotionally troubled and was on her way to committing suicide. Yet as the adult in the situation she should have been matured and sensible enough to know that when your kids get into it with other children she should approach the parent of the offending child. On any level what that woman did was mean spirited and if she thinks she'll never pay she'll need to think again. It will hang over her head for the rest of her life ans there is ONE who sees all things.

  • 9 Posted by s.maguire64 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 8:59PM EDT Report Abuse

    I hope this wake up call reaches the right people. I check out what my 15 year old is doing. Used to be worried about perverts. Now a new threat arises.

  • 10 Posted by crimped357 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:31PM EDT Report Abuse

    "Too bad they can't sentence that 49 yo dumbass into behaving like an adult." my god isn't that the truth!

  • 11 Posted by shelleyholloway@ymail.com on Thu Sep 3, 2009 9:19PM EDT Report Abuse

    I think that she should of gone to prison for along time. I can not beleive that she got away with murder!!!What a B***H!!!!! I am a middle ager and if someone did that to my daughter and got away with it I would take justice into my own hands! But then again, she has to meet with God in the end!

  • 12 Posted by boonhocktn on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:11PM EDT Report Abuse

    Are u sure Drew has a conscience? Maybe not. But the horror, outrage and disgust people around her feel for her is a just punishment for playing with a depressed teenage girl's state of mind! Drew sounds "morally sick" or "juvenile and childish". I think she is both............. .

  • 13 Posted by donniekilgore@att.net on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:46PM EDT Report Abuse

    I think it was a heartles and cruel thing for a grown woman to do what is wrong people like that? posted by donniekilgore@att.net

  • 14 Posted by cad7phoke on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:16PM EDT Report Abuse

    How DID that big fat biatch find the time to terrorize a child on the internet? Most working mothers complain about not having enough time to do all the necessary good in a 24 hour period.

  • 16 Posted by stollj@sbcglobal.net on Thu Sep 3, 2009 9:45PM EDT Report Abuse

    She should get 10 yrs working with disturbed your girls. She does not appear to be ashamed of what she did. Shame on this so called adult.

  • 19 Posted by darktruth06 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:36PM EDT Report Abuse

    This is an absolute sin. Maybe Lori didn't see the girl's suicide coming, but accidental murder is still murder, or at least manslaughter. If you're 49 and still playing games that most 13 year olds see as childish, you have some serious problems.

  • 20 Posted by bhfdans on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:06PM EDT Report Abuse

    ok look, CP, identity theft, hacking, phishing scams, these are things police should be involved with when dealing with the internet. pretty much everything else should be hands off. this lady did intended to mess with the mind of a 13 y/o, but i dont think she ever wished death on her. her behavior online should definitely be looked down upon, but not necessarily criminalized. bust her for obstruction of justice for not telling cops what she knew about the girl's suicide, maybe a cyberstalking or harassment charge, NOT murder. if you want an internet sanitized for your protection, consider making your home in beijing. if you want that kind of protection IRL, try singapore. if you or your children are sensitive to this stuff but want to stay in the states and participate with modern society, go see your local shrink, get some coping skills, then come on out of your sheck and enjoy freedom.

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