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"Sexting" has been big in the news of late. In case you're not hip to the lingo, it's the practice of sending lascivious and revealing photos of oneself to someone else. Popular among teenagers, it's been roundly decried as the last step in the complete decay of the morality of the youth of today. It's even gotten at least one teenager in trouble, branding this poor guy a sex offender (plus a sentence of five years probation) when he forwarded nude shots of his girlfriend to her family after they had a fight.
He's not alone: According to one recent survey, 20 percent of teens now admit to taking part in the practice. Myriad cases similar to the above are working their way through the courts.
But sexting isn't such a bad thing, says one extremely brave professor at a Toronto University. Presenting a paper at a Humanities and Social Sciences conference (the after-parties are killer, I hear), professor Peter Cumming said the practice was largely innocuous, essentially an update on "playing doctor or spin-the-bottle."
Cumming's point is a valid one: Teens explore sexuality, and they always have and always will. The introduction of cell phones and other technologies in recent years doesn't really change anything, it just introduces a new medium in which that exploration will occur. In the future, I'm sure today's youths will bemoan a similar development occurring among their kids. As Cumming notes, legally branding two curious teens as child pornographers -- a common side-effect when sexters get busted -- for exchanging topless photos of themselves simply isn't helpful.
That said, children do need to know that risque photos can have serious consequences, and once distributed are usually impossible to delete. A game of spin-the-bottle, in comparison, rarely has consequences beyond a case of chapped lips and simple embarrassment.
Cumming also notes that sexting has at least one positive side-effect: Since they participants engage in the practice remotely instead of in physical contact, their actions are less likely to result in pregnancy or sexual transmitted diseases. Score one for technology!
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The teenagers initial intentions may be harmless... but in this day and age once you send something out there via cell or internet it is there to stay. This is serious, and they are underage out there for the world to see. Maybe they are not "sex offenders" but serious actions can sometimes call for serious actions.
Instead of guessing and blaming, perhaps all who questioned the validity of the quoted professor should take a better shot at searching the web: Peter E. Cumming, Ph.D. Associate Professor Director of Undergraduate Studies, Division of Humanities Coordinator, Children's Studies Program Office Location 204 Vanier College York University 4700 Keele Street Toronto, Ontario M3J 1P3 Found on the first search page with Yahoo: http://www.alltheweb.com/search?cat=web&cs=iso88591&q=peter+cumming+toronto+university&rys=0&itag=crv&_sb_lang=pref
hahahahahahahahahahah cumming dude wow what a name ;p i don't think sexting is bad if that's what floats your boat then dood let it nobody can't tell you what to do, but i think people who sext.. have no lives and it's just a way for loners to get some. lollll;)
this is totally harmles. teens are going to do something and this might as well be it. at least they are not having sex or anything else.
i think this is the most stupidest thing anyone can say is sextexting is okay ur just giving yong people the wrong addvise. if u go off and send a nude pic to on eof ur like bf/gf and they send it to there friends think how that one person is going to feel. i have heard of many people killing themselves over haveing there picture sent around to everyone. so ur just going to give permission to us teens and ur saying do it it doesnt hurt anyone well u are just wrong.
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26 Posted by stonefeelings on Tue Jun 2, 2009 5:57AM EDT Report Abuse
In my opinion this professor is an idioit. Morals are out of control. It's as old as the oldest profesion. That does not make it right. Just because someone says it OK does not make it ok. Men growup stop treating woman as trash. Woman growup stop acting like trash. The problem with children and school today is they are not learning they are being entertained. In case no one has noticed USA is about to go down the toilet I say flush lets see where we land and start over. Oh but maybe without the government. They have not been doing such a great job...Maybe they all had professors like the Mr. Cummings.