MySpace Move: Notification Software for Parents
Wed Jan 17, 2007 12:35PM EST
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To ward off a lawsuit by 33 state attorneys general, MySpace will offer free parental notification software that will allow parents to learn what name, age, and location their children use to identify themselves on MySpace.
News Corp. is trying to walk a thin line between appeasing government officials who are concerned that teenagers are opening themselves up to online predators and teenagers who don't want adults looking over their shoulders in their online lives.
The Wall Street Journal reports that the "Zephyr" software will not allow parents to read their kids' email, instant messages, or see their profile pages. Teens, meanwhile, will be notified when their parents request the profile ID information. The software is installed on the child's home computer, but will detect changes even if he logs onto MySpace from another computer.
This move may push some kids away from the social-networking site, but probably only if their friends go, too. It seems a plausible medium between privacy and accountability. It's okay for parents to know how their kids are presenting themselves online without reading their conversations and seeing the pages they put together. Basically, it's a heads-up for parents on what is already public information should they go searching online for their kids' pages.
As Larry Magid, a founder of blogsafety.com, writes for CBS News online, it provides an incentive for parents and kids to talk about how and why the software is being used, and about their activities on MySpace: "That conversation is probably more important than any reporting mechanism, because it helps create a dialog between the parent and the child." He likens it to asking where your kids are going and which friends they will be with, without following them or eavesdropping when they're out with friends.
For MySpace, it is one more gesture to assure law enforcement officials it is serious about safeguarding members as best as possible. In June, the site restricted MySpace users age 18 and older from requesting to be on 14- or 15-year-old members' friends lists. Still, there is no way for MySpace to verify the ages any of its members purport to be.
What do you think about MySpace's latest effort to assuage concerns about kids' safety in a growing online community? Restrictive or ineffective?
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2 Posted by mullins on Thu Sep 3, 2009 7:30PM EDT Report Abuse
This doesn't seem like anything more than what parents can already do by simply looking at their kid's profile (even if it is private). I guess the change notification is important.
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3 Posted by axster_98 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:00PM EDT Report Abuse
My Daughter was posing as a 15 yr old and she is 12, all her 11 and 12 year old friends have myspace accounts. This Myspace needs some altering to prevent this from being so easy. Predators are having a field day with myspace. I think you should have a credit card for verifaction or someway to prove your identity.
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4 Posted by susancucchiara on Thu Sep 3, 2009 9:50PM EDT Report Abuse
I agree with Mullins... but maybe a lot of parents dont realize all that htey can do to keep an eye on their kid's internet activities. In order for my child to have a MySpace, the rules were: 1. To make it private.. that is a must. 2. To not list any detailed personal information. 3. To add me on her friends list. That way I am able to go on her site whenever I want, see her comments to others (unless they are private too) but more importantly, see comments to her and what kind of friends she is inviting to her private site. A lot of her friends also invited me onto their space which just extends my ability to see what's going on in their social groups. My daughter jokes that I am stalking her friends by reading stuff on there but perhaps if more parents looked into what their kids were doing, we wouldnt hear such horrible stories out there. I realize that kids could make another profile that they dont tell you about but we also have a rule that computer use is in common rooms only.. no hiding away in a bedroom. I am constantly shocked by the stories I hear about kids on this website and things that happened but to be honest, I am more shocked at the lack of parent supervision. One other thing I have heard about is a software called KeyLogger that you can install (secretly) and it will tell you every single key that your child ever types on the computer. I think there are free versions and then more detailed versions you can pay for. It does not however give you what others type to your child though. So supposedly you could read what they type on emails, websites, you name it. I have not used it myself but know of others who like it.
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5 Posted by smilielyn on Thu Sep 3, 2009 9:28PM EDT Report Abuse
I don't know if this will help parents at all. I being a parent of two (2) teenage boys would like to be able to receive an online history report with all of my childrens activity with emails, conversations and IM's. This would be essential and would help parents monitor their children more carefully and take extra precautions. I believe it will also help detect early signs or changes in a child that can perhaps lead them to do something stupid or crazy like what's been happening lately with predators and kids running away with someone they met online.
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6 Posted by free2bgold on Thu Sep 3, 2009 4:03PM EDT Report Abuse
My 14 year old daughter thought she had a private myspace however was terrified to go on line one evening and find her identity was stolen and comments she did not make were written. I am very concerned, her picture was even removed. I contacted myspace and got a non script reply. I then contacted crimes against minors unit of the FBI. What could someone be instigating, preying on my daughter or using her profile to prey on others? There is no safe space on myspace.
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7 Posted by smilielyn on Thu Sep 3, 2009 9:28PM EDT Report Abuse
In addition to my previous comment, this article is nothing new to me. I have setup my own profie which allows me to view my children profiles, read their comments as well as their friends (if their profile is not set on private). I think myspace is too easy for children. Anyone at any age can setup a profile. I know of kids that are as young as 12 years own and have their profile stating they are 19 years of age. I allow my boys to go on myspace but i am always talking to them about this crazy world. Todays society is very scary I see teenage girls dressed in sleezy clothing, very provacative. Where are their parents and how do they allow their girls to act and dress the way they do. Then when they are raped they don't understand why. I believe parents regardless if they have boy or girls should have full control of their kids and draw a line and not allow the kids to be in control of the parents. Talking to your children is very important by keeping the lines of communication open at all times. Your children should be able to feel comfortable as well as confident in talking to their parents.
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8 Posted by rfuzzybear1 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 8:38PM EDT Report Abuse
Thank you for taking actions to help parents protect there children from sexual predators by letting parents have some control. I would also suggest developing an adult verification system/service so adults can be assured they are only talking to other adults when an adult interacts in/with an "adult only" web sites or with another adults on "MySpaces". Make it easy, free, and trustable so people will participate. RM (Seattle WA USA
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9 Posted by wiccan_girl414@sbcglobal.net on Thu Sep 3, 2009 10:45PM EDT Report Abuse
I absolutely agree with Jack_r. You parents out there who are asking for ways to spy on your children, why can you not trust your child? For your information, out of the millions on MySpace, I would love to see you come up with a considerable number of girls who are INNOCENTLY targeted by predators. I'm not accusing anyone of bad parenting, but if your kid is too retarded to tell the difference between acceptable and not acceptable, DO NOT BLAME IT ON MYSPACE. MySpace did not raise your kids--you did. If it is anyone's fault, the blame should first lie with the supposed "victim" and his/her parents. I'm not saying that there aren't child predators, but a lot of the girls DO ask for it. I am a girl myself with a MySpace, and I have yet to be visited by a predator or have my identity stolen. Secret to success? I have common sense and keep my profile to basics and appropriate. I don't ask for sex; I don't ask for drugs. And I definitely do not ask for unwanted attention. And if your child's identity was stolen, that's not MySpace's fault. There is such a thing called "hacking". Maybe the term is new to you, but certain individuals are responsible for the hacking. I can wholly reassure you that every single site has a weakness to hackers and most are always looking for ways to improve their security. I see frequent bulletins from Tom (MySpace creator) trying to keep the hackers to a minimum even though he cannot eliminate them all. He posts daily with programs we can protect our files with (a specific one is QuickTime, which is a program that comes along with iTunes). MySpace was created to be a networking system for people to keep in touch. If some kids find their way onto the site and make a MySpace that screams "HUNT ME", that's their problem. If kids try to look older, they should be prepared to bear the consequences of being treated older. MySpace isn't the only place that isn't 100% safe. MySpace gives warnings about posting personal information EVERY TIME you make a comment on a profile. It always ask for confirmation before complying with the request. Even widely trusted networks like Yahoo! have warnings against posting personal information. If you cannot trust your child enough to give them their privacy, then you're not worthy to be a parent. Maybe it's just overprotective-ness, but have you thought about the kids who are subjected to it? Suppression only breeds rebellion, as history has taught us over and over. I'd like to think that SOMEONE learns from history once in a while. Just like any other relationship, there has to be trust. Without it, you can't be considered family, no matter how close your DNA or genetics are. My own mother would die before she betrays my privacy. Thanks to her I have common sense enough to know my way around the internet and not fly all the way to a foreign country just because someone I met ONLINE told me to. The least you parents can do is to give your child a chance.
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10 Posted by criollita8 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:31PM EDT Report Abuse
All I could say is Jack_r2006 you are absolutely right.
1 Posted by galtonjisix on Thu Sep 3, 2009 4:05PM EDT Report Abuse
Excellent article, Dory. While my kids have not yet asked about MySpace, it is good to know that I have an option to instigate a good conversation about online safety with them. I'm sure other parents would agree and will find this move by MySpace helpful, at the least. It's a shame we have to worry about such things ... alas, an imperfect world we all live in. G