MySpace suicide hoax case closes: Mom guilty of 3 misdemeanors

Fri Nov 28, 2008 8:09PM EST

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One of the more distasteful web-centric stories in the last few years is the case of the 13-year-old Megan Meier, who was romanced and then abruptly dumped by a boy via the MySpace social networking service. In the end, it turns out there was no boy on the other end of the line, but rather a 49-year-old woman named Lori Drew, who was the mother of one of Megan's ex-friends. Megan didn't know that, though, when she hanged herself, distraught by the whole affair.

A little over a year later, the case has come to a close: The verdict, Drew has been found guilty of three misdemeanors, all involving violations of the terms of service agreement with MySpace, which in part prohibits using phony identities on the site. Drew was cleared on felony charges -- or at least not convicted; the jury failed to reach a verdict either way on one count of conspiracy.

Curiously, observers on both sides of the case are largely unhappy with the result. Many advocates wanted to see Drew found guilty of something that would make her culpable for Meier's death: According to reports she clearly knew that Meier suffered from depression. A grand jury indicted her on four counts this summer, the total of which could have earned her 20 years in prison. However, with the misdemeanor verdicts, she's unlikely to see any jail time at all.

But Drew's defender successfully argued that the case had nothing to do with murder but with computer crime, and a minor one at that. (Who hasn't created a fake identity online somewhere or told a lie via message board?) But that tactic has computer rights advocates up in arms as well. Why? Because now there's legal precedent that makes terms of service agreements legally enforceable. Has anyone ever not broken a Terms of Service agreement? Has anyone even read one all the way through? Theoretically, you could now be prosecuted -- criminally -- for using a phony email address or phone number when you register at a website (whether or not anyone died as a result), and with a precedent like the Drew case, the charges would stick.

The upshot: No one's altogether happy with the way things turned out. Except, perhaps, Lori Drew, who'll have her conscience to contend with after that slap on her wrist finally heals.

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  • 1 Posted by middlenamefrank on Thu Sep 3, 2009 7:19PM EDT Report Abuse

    Too bad they can't sentence that 49 yo dumbass into behaving like an adult. As a middle-ager myself, I just can't fathom what could drive an adult to harassing a 13 yo...and doing it anonymously! Hopefully she gets the scorn she deserves, since she didn't get the jailtime. I hope she's lost every friend she ever had and hears on a daily basis what an incredibly infantile thing that was to do.

  • 2 Posted by magpagbst on Thu Sep 3, 2009 7:03PM EDT Report Abuse

    hey parents . . . you chose to have your children . . . it is your duty to know what your children are getting into!! . . . i.e. when you allow them to use the internet regulate what they can and cannot access . . . culpability for this suicide primarily falls on the shoulders of the girl's parents . . . despite the guilty woman's absolute stupidity . . .

  • 3 Posted by alexgannis on Thu Sep 3, 2009 2:50PM EDT Report Abuse

    Yes it the parent who should know what their children are doing and are as much as blame, But as what this women did was stupid and should be in jail for life. There a lot of good thing and bad out in the internet world which should be watch and control by everyone.

  • 4 Posted by coolkyle4@snet.net on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:29PM EDT Report Abuse

    Thats rediculous. She should've had jail time. She knew that the 13yr old had depression so obviously she figured shed kill herself. Its a 13 yr old, so obviously shes not gonna b smart. Parents need 2 watch their kids closely at the age of puberty.

  • 5 Posted by netwizard2003 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 7:36PM EDT Report Abuse

    I kinda wish this would have ended the way the Law and Order episode a few weeks back that was based off this story ended (the defendant was convicted of conspiracy and murder)

  • 6 Posted by toniechina on Thu Sep 3, 2009 10:16PM EDT Report Abuse

    being a parent is really hard,you want whats best for your children,you trade your will for them to have a good life,sacrifices and hard work,its easy to talk and write a comment but please consider, once you've never been there,you don't know how is it like,people just talk about parenting when there's a bad news that happened,its few situations but how about the parents that work hard and yet fail,everyone has its own contributions,we have to think everytime..life is how we want it..

  • 7 Posted by badbakkaruda on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:01PM EDT Report Abuse

    The whole affair was a twisted tale of revenge? I can agree there was no "smoking gun", but at the very least she should have been charged with involuntary manslaughter or at least reckless endangerment. Our court system failed that little girl.

  • 8 Posted by bella77427 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:04PM EDT Report Abuse

    This is such a horrible thing to have happened. True this woman can't be punished by the law of man for what she allegedly caused since it can't be proved in the court of laws. Arguably the child could have been mentally or emotionally troubled and was on her way to committing suicide. Yet as the adult in the situation she should have been matured and sensible enough to know that when your kids get into it with other children she should approach the parent of the offending child. On any level what that woman did was mean spirited and if she thinks she'll never pay she'll need to think again. It will hang over her head for the rest of her life ans there is ONE who sees all things.

  • 9 Posted by s.maguire64 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 8:59PM EDT Report Abuse

    I hope this wake up call reaches the right people. I check out what my 15 year old is doing. Used to be worried about perverts. Now a new threat arises.

  • 10 Posted by crimped357 on Thu Sep 3, 2009 3:31PM EDT Report Abuse

    "Too bad they can't sentence that 49 yo dumbass into behaving like an adult." my god isn't that the truth!

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